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Classic Romantic Moment: Bella Wilfer and John Harmon from Our Mutual Friend

Bella Wilfer and John Harmon
Bella and John

The Film: Our Mutual Friend.

The Pairing: Bella Wilfer (Anna Friel) and John Rokesmith /Harmon (Steven Mackintosh).

The Moment: Bella defends John and finally confesses her feelings.

Bella Wilfer and John Harmon

The romance between Bella Wilfer and John Harmon (Rokesmith) from the period drama, Our Mutual Friend, began badly and seemed to continue that way for some time. Before either met, John Harmon’s father inextricably linked them by making it a condition of his will that his son marry Bella if he wished to receive his inheritance. Upon returning to England, John Harmon fell into company with a man to whom he bore a striking resemblance. During the man’s betrayal and attempt to take on his identity, the man was killed because of money. Finding himself in a strange position, and instead of explaining the situation to the police, John Harmon allowed everyone to believe that he was dead.

He came upon the idea of finding Bella and getting to know her before he decided whether to reveal that he was actually alive. The kindly old Boffins inherit the fortune in the wake of his supposed death and decide to take in Bella as a kindness to John’s memory. Learning of this, John obtains a position in their household as a secretary taking the name of Rokesmith instead of Harmon. Observing Bella he finds an intelligent and beautiful young woman and begins to fall in love with her. However, Bella turns out to be of a rather mercenary disposition believing that it is best to marry for money, not love and is firm on the point. When John declares his feelings, she rebuffs them harshly. Though heartbroken, John decides to continue on in his position not wishing to make her hate him should he reveal his true identity and so force her to accept him as a husband.

Bella Wilfer and John HarmonBella Wilfer and John Harmon

After some time has passed and Bella has grown a little wiser, the two begin to develop a bond, becoming friends. Bella apologises for the way she spoke to him. They grow close. As money begins to matter less to Bella, she is alarmed to observe that kindly old Mr. Boffin is turning miserly and cruel. He is told by an acquaintance about the proposal and one day calls them both into the sitting room to confront John.

The Romantic Moment

Bella comes into the sitting room and finds the Boffins and John Rokesmith gathered. Mr Boffin smiles.

Our Mutual Friend

Mr. Boffin: Do not be alarmed, Bella my dear.  We’re here to see you righted.

Bella Wilfer: See me righted?

Mr. Boffin: Now, Sir.  Consider this young lady.

John Rokesmith: I do, Sir.

Our Mutual Friend

Mr. Boffin: How dare you tamper with this young lady? How dare you come out of your station to pester this young lady with your impudent proposals? This lady was far above you. This young woman was looking about the market for a good bid.

Bella takes Mrs Boffin’s hand, concerned.

Mr Boffin: She wasn’t about to be snapped up by fellows that had no money to buy.

Bella Wilfer: Mrs. Boffin?

Mrs. Boffin: Oh my dear I can’t let…

She is close to tears.

Our Mutual Friend

Mr. Boffin: Old lady, you hold your tongue. Now Bella, don’t you be put out. I’ll right you.

Bella Wilfer: But you don’t. You don’t right me, you wrong me.

Our Mutual Friend

Mr. Boffin:  This lady did herself tell you of your presumption. Did she not?

Bella Wilfer: Did I Mr. Rokesmith, did I?

John Rokesmith: Do not be distressed, Miss Wilfer.

Our Mutual Friend

Bella Wilfer: But I’ve asked him to forgive me since and would again now if it would spare him.

Mrs. Boffin lets out a sob.

Mr. Boffin: Old lady, stop that noise.

He turns to John.

Mr Boffin: Now what have you got to say for yourself?

John Rokesmith: My interest in Miss Wilfer began the moment I saw her. Even before.

Mr. Boffin: Ah this is a longer scheme than I thought. He gets to know about me and my property. And about Bella and the part she played in poor John Harmon’s story and he says to himself, “I’ll get in with Boffin.” But he didn’t know who he was dealing with did he Bella, my dear? He thought to squeeze money out of us and he has done for himself instead.

Our Mutual Friend

John Rokesmith: I have borne my position here that I might not be separated from Miss Wilfer and since she rejected me I have not urged my suit with one syllable or look. But my devotion to her has not changed except that it has grown deeper and better founded. My feeling for Miss Wilfer is not one to be ashamed of. I love her. And when I leave her and this house I go into a blank life.

Bella is profoundly moved by his heartfelt speech and brought to tears.

Our Mutual Friend

Mr. Boffin: Let me assist you to that blank life. You’re a pretty quick packer I hope.

Mr Rokesmith: You shall have no fear of my lingering.

Mr Boffin: One thing before you go. You pretend to have a mighty affection for this young lady but what is due to this young lady is money and the young lady knows that very well. This young lady only wants money and that’s the end of it.

Bella becomes increasingly more distressed.

John Rokesmith: You slander the young lady.

Mr Boffin: You slander her. It’s money she makes a bid for. Money, money, money.

John Rokesmith: Mrs. Boffin for your delicate and unwavering kindness I thank you. Miss Wilfer goodbye.

He begins to leave. She looks after him growing even more upset. Suddenly, she runs after him.

Bella Wilfer: Oh God let me be poor again!

Our Mutual Friend

John looks back in surprise.

Bella Wilfer: Someone I pray or my heart will break. Don’t give me money Mr. Boffin. I don’t want money. Oh God help me.

Bella Wilfer and John Harmon

She walks over to Mr Boffin.

Mr Boffin: There, there my dear, it’s all right, you’re righted now.

Bella Wilfer: I hate you.

Mr Boffin is aghast.

Bella Wilfer: I have heard you with shame for myself and for you. I am afraid that you have become a monster.

Bella returns to Mr Rokesmith by the door.

Bella Wilfer and John Harmon

Bella Wilfer: Mr Rokesmith, I’m deeply sorry for the reproaches you have borne on my account. I earnestly and truly beg your pardon. The only fault you should admit to is that you laid yourself open to be slighted by a worldly shallow girl whose head was turned and was quite unable to rise to what you offered.

Bella Wilfer and John Harmon

He listens quietly and then bends to kiss her hand.

Bella Wilfer and John HarmonBella Wilfer and John Harmon

He then walks out of the door. Heartbroken at his departure, Bella runs into the arms of Mrs Boffin, sobbing.

Shortly after, Bella leaves the Boffin house to return home with the understanding that she will not get any money if she does. As she is walking home with her father, John runs to meet her, joyous.

John Rokesmith: My dear girl.

She is surprised to see him, not understanding why he has come.

Bella Wilfer and John Harmon

John Rokesmith: My gallant, courageous and noble Bella. You are my love?

Bella Wilfer: Well I suppose I am if you think me worth taking.

Bella Wilfer and John Harmon

They embrace, euphoric.

Bella Wilfer and John Harmon

Do you like Bella and John’s romance? Or do you prefer Lizzie and Eugene?

Photo Credits: BBC

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By on October 25th, 2015

About Elinor Cackett

Elinor is a writer and semi-recent graduate of English and Creative Writing at Aberystwyth University. She has been writing ever since she could hold a pen but her love affair with fiction started when the entirety of David Eddings’ 'The Belgariad' was read to her at age four. She currently has a couple of books and half a dozen short stories on the go. She spends her free time writing, analysing media and knitting very colourful scarves.

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1 thought on “Classic Romantic Moment: Bella Wilfer and John Harmon from Our Mutual Friend”

  1. Our Mutual Friend was the first BBC period drama I watched on PBS. It made me fall in love with Masterpiece Theatre. Since then I can’t get enough of period dramas. I re-watched Our Mutual Friend a few months ago. The first time around I remember liking the romance between Lizzie and Eugene, but after a second viewing I much prefer Bella and John. I hope everyone gets a chance to watch this wonderful show.


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