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When it comes to romances, they can come in all shapes and sizes. There are the fun, flirty ones, the deep, soulful ones, the love/hate ones (a personal favorite), the tragic ones and so on. The impact each of them leaves on us can vary widely but there is one type of romance that sucks you in and keeps you there. These are the slow-burn romances. Frequently surprising and always enjoyable to watch unfold, these are the sort of relationships on which fandoms are built. So, without further ado, here are eight reasons why slow-burn romance is the best kind of romance.

8 Reasons Slow-Burn Romance Are The Best

#1 More Realistic … And Yet More Romantic Too.

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With slow-burn romance, the writer(s) really take the time to show a connection develop between two people. You see it happen organically the way you might in real life. This added sense of realism makes the love story feel real and lends it greater depth. While love-at-first-sight can also be very romantic, there is something incredibly charming about watching two people gradually see each other in a new light and begin to fall in love.

#2 The Characters Have More Time To Develop

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Because these stories don’t often begin like a romance, there is more time to see the characters on their own before they become a part of a couple. They feel more like real people, like friends who you want to be happy.

#3 We Care. We Care A Lot

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The characters are well-developed on their own so we have more time to get invested. And once you’re in, there is no going back. You find yourself scrutinizing every interaction, hoping for some indication that there’s something there. The characters are awesome and deserve to be happy; if only they would just see it themselves.

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#4 Value Is Placed In Small Gestures

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In slow-burn romance, because the love story often feels like a surprise, we are often made to act detective. Every glance, every accidental touch, every moment of understanding means something and is weighted with expectation. Classic novels are particularly good at this form of writing romance, especially since the characters have to contend with much stricter societal rules.

#5 The Suspense

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While it can be terribly frustrating when characters will not see what is right in front of them, the build-up only adds to the enjoyment of the story and makes the eventual conclusion all the happier for it.

#6 The Moment

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You know the moment. You’ve seen all the little hints, the false starts, the impediments but this time something is actually going to happen. One of the characters has finally found the courage to admit their feelings. There’s maybe even a kiss – if we’re lucky. TV series do this really well. If you’re anything like me you may have literally jumped for joy when the moment finally came for your favorite couple. Extra points if you’re the only one who picked up on what the writers were planning.

#7 More Satisfying In The Long Run

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Due to the waiting, the hints, the build-up and the love we have for these characters, when it finally all comes together, it’s a very good feeling, cathartic even. The happy ending feels truly earned because the characters have worked for it and in a way so have we.

#8 Re-readability/ Re-watch-ability

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Of the love stories that have stayed with me and brought me back time and again, it’s most often because of these reasons. It seems to always be fresh no matter how many times you revisit these characters.

Do you like slow-burn romance? Have any favorites? Which moment made you punch the air or shout a little too loudly? Sound off below.

Written by Elinor Cackett
Elinor is a writer and semi-recent graduate of English and Creative Writing at Aberystwyth University. She has been writing ever since she could hold a pen but her love affair with fiction started when the entirety of David Eddings’ 'The Belgariad' was read to her at age four. She currently has a couple of books and half a dozen short stories on the go. She spends her free time writing, analysing media and knitting very colourful scarves.